The Outfit: Don't be afraid to go outside your element and just do something to have fun. I put in this really fun and easy hair chalk by Splat which can we bought at CVS. I was a bit inspired by Nicole Richie so I went for a purple color. I decided to stick with this a kind of rock and roll aesthetic and wear this leather dress out. We went to the Roosevelt and had such a great time chatting and sipping on our drinks. All night people complimented my hair, making me wish it was lasting a week rather than just a few days.
On my Brain: "I am only responsible for my own heart, you offered yours up for the smashing my darling. Only a fool would give out such a vital organ." -Anais Nin. First, if you don't know who she is then get to reading but mostly, this about the connection of two people. I find it absolutely fanscinating. We are in a constant push and pull from the minute you meet a mate. I hate to say anything is about one person having the power over the other but I do believe sometimes you do have the ball in your court. I tend to be an open hearted romantic but as I experience more in life I find myself playing my cards a bit closer to the chest. I use to be very by the book and a bit judgmental of girls who didn't need love to justify physical interaction. I think I've learned a lot about how different a romantic and a physical interaction are. I also have realized that only you are responsible for your own heart and you need to take care of it and you. Abandon any situation that feels wrong and be honest about where your heart is. For example if you care tell the person but don't do because you're expecting them to be your significant other. It's not fair to pretend you feel nothing if you do and more importantly, it's awful to pretend you feel something if you don't. I wish more people would function like that. Things are easier if you're just truthful about it all. I would see so many friends who are less and less frequently heartbroken.